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What is one thing you would change about yourself?

Sometimes I deep dive into ancient texts , paintings and I see no changes in the sky, sea nor in the ground we walk on but humans and their rapacity to change their surrounding according to their wants not needs of course. As I belong to the same species there are several things depending on my wants and needs that I would like to change myself.  “Accepting” is not for pigheads . A skill that the our pinterest board doesn’t teach , neither any great professor . And guess why do I sound like an elderly lady who is done with life ?!. Cause I am one of them (pigheaded) . It really sucks when I can’t accept anything,  and I need to change it, like how you want change your haircut, a tough decision to make but I am not sure it’s gonna make me a wise man or a chicken . 

My overanalyzing mind doesn’t really settle with the fact that “Accepting” is really gonna change my life . So I came up with the idea of  jotting down its pros and cons . Let’s discuss it briefly

Pros of Accepting-

• Makes us wise

• less mental stress

• Helps to move forward ( you become a pro at ignoring)

Let’s go from the Cons – (they are my favorite)

• People might misuse your patience .

• Accepting disrespect can weaken your confidence

• Supresssed feelings

• Might settle for less

• You might stay with wrong people or stick with committing wrong did for long .

• Reduce motivation

• Might overadjust yourself

Okay now this is confusing for me too .

Do I really need to change ??!

Yeah I need to , but with balance everything works out .

🙂